Psychological Manipulation

May 21st, 2010

Yes, it's been done to a lot of people, heck it's been done to me. But the psychologic manipulation that I'm dawning on is the one that my boyfriend performed on me. It makes me curious as to how he does it.

Am I just gullible? or is he a really good actor? No, not even an actor more like one of those detectives you see on Criminal Minds (I love that show). As my finger throbs as I type out this curious case of mine. (I was trying to cut a lemon, but failed miserably as I cut into my thumb. :/) Anyways, what he does, I can't quiet get the gist of it.

Gist of it meaning, I'd like to perform such task. But I would never think of myself as a good enough actor or a manipulator to do such a thing. But then again I'm smart enough to fool my brother that the ketchup he was eating was blood. (Then again he was 5 years old...) The point is that I thought it was cool. Of course he used his manipulation skills for good and not for evil. (Which is something I have utter loath over from past experiences.)

Anyways my amazing bf was playing a little mind game with me causing me to feel sad and he acted as though he was really sad. But in truth he just wanted to see how I'd react to a certain situation he'd thought up. After a few days he confessed he was playing a mind game with me. (He's done it before to test me.) Usually I'd be alright with it, the fact that I'd just been somewhat lied and manipulated into thinking and believing what was going on. (Except when I'm on my ".") Yeah it sounds a bit like he's a bad person but no. It's simply a way of trying to get something out of me without doing something worse. (I guess?)

Point is I am curious and interested to learn how to do such a feat. That's all ;p Love my baby ko. <3

Have a great rest of the day. noon. night. (depending on which time zone you're in)